Cycling home today, I saw a lot of Mums pulling various uniform-clad little ones across traffic lights, book bags trailing behind them. I also saw a couple of late-teens-early-twenties-aged-child-looker-after-ers laughing and giggling with their rabble, jumping and skipping along the road.
I love seeing it, it's so lovely to see people happy and enjoying life.
It does make me miss the various little people (and slightly bigger people) I've been lucky enough to take care of, though. Growing up, I babysat for the vast majority of the village from the age of fourteen (being a Beaver Scout leader and having younger brothers helps with that!). I've lost count of how many lounges I've sat in, stories I've read, and games I've played.
Through volunteering, there are even more hours spent looking after children to add up. The hordes that have come through Beavers, Cubs and Scouts (at one point I helped out at all three, spanning two different troops), and those I worked with when volunteering with Shout Out Leeds, with Team v, at a school or two, play groups and church.
When working in a toy shop for a few years, I met a lot of kids, some very briefly, but there were other more regular shoppers who I got to know quite well. As a student ambassador for a couple of years, I interacted with children and young people of all ages. With many it would be a ten-minute chat, or occasionally a day doing various activities. But residentials were the best bit of the job: whole weeks getting to know some incredible young people, being privileged enough to share their stories, hear their worries, and listen to their hopes and dreams. There are so many young people who I got to know really well, but who I will never see again.
Out of all of the children I've looked after, there are a couple who have, perhaps, made the biggest impact on me.
The twins who showed me that even though the world can be ridiculously rubbish, there are still smiles to be had, and Peppa Pig can fix almost anything. They showed me that what my body looks like doesn't matter, so long as it's healthy enough to take them swimming. They reminded me that baking can be fun, giggles are infectious, and that mess can be joyful. Their Mum recognised that things could be rough, cancer was rubbish, and hugs from little people were sometimes all that was needed to calm a storm.
The three children belonging to my friend. The youngest, born just a month after Mum's terminal diagnosis, reminding me that life is cyclical and though people die, and it's crap that they die, people also live, people are born, and life is precious. The middle one has enough energy to keep a power station active for a week and an imagination to rival that of acclaimed writers, who continues to show me that dreams are important and life isn't as serious as you think. The eldest, an incredible footballer with a big heart, always outside playing with his friends - a continuous reminder that life is greater than these four walls.
Finally, the two boys who I spent Summer, Easter and Christmas with for three years. The boys who baked with me, swam with me, built dens and Lego models with me, ran down to the river, came to the library and tackled buses with me. The boys who took me to the Great Yorkshire Show, the Royal Armouries and Leeds museum. The two boys who let me kiss things better, let me hug them, let me care about them through a time when the world felt so uncaring. However rubbish my night had been, whatever crap was going through my head, however downright awful I felt, they never failed to lift my mood, show me how to smile and bring light to the darkest of days.
Kids are incredible (as are many of their parents!). I'm not entirely sure how/why their parents decided I was responsible enough to keep their little people alive, but I'm so glad they did. I don't know how many of them will remember me when they are my age, but I will remember many of them.
Summer has come to a close, and I haven't done a single day of childcare. It feels very odd. I've finally emailed my student ambassador job to let them know I'm not coming back, and had a lovely email in response. I miss some of these children a huge amount. I hope that I can see some of them soon (though a couple of them moved to Guernsey which is mildly inconvenient). I'm growing up and moving on and it's impossible to take everything from my past to my future, I guess it's just about recognising that these experiences will always be a part of me and my life - they have shaped me and helped me grow into the person I am today; they have got me through some really tough times. Moving forwards is hard, leaving things I enjoyed and loved is hard - but ultimately, it's right.