How often does your child tell you that you aren't listening to them. Have you ever thought why they say that?
- Is it because you are not looking at them whilst they are speaking?
- Is it because you aren't validating their feelings or their thoughts?
- Are you nodding your head?
- Are you distracted by something else that is going on?
- Are you saying all those acknowledgement words such as 'oh yes', 'really'?
- Do you probe them with questions?
- Is it because you jump in with your thoughts about what they are saying before your child has finished talking?
- By listening to your child and what they have to say you are showing them respect and a skill that you want them to inherit.
What do you do to show you are listening?