Mila Kunis has opened up about how recent events in Ukraine have affected her.
The Bad Moms star was born in Chernivtsi but moved to the United States with her family in 1991 around the age of eight.
Mila told Maria Shriver in a candid interview uploaded to YouTube on Friday that because of this, she “very much” has “always felt like an American.”
“People were like, ‘Oh, you’re so Eastern European.’ I was like, ‘I’m so LA! What do you mean?’ Like, my whole life I was like, ‘I am LA through and through,’” Mila said.
She said that because she identified so strongly as an American that being Ukrainian felt “irrelevant” to her for a majority of her life — although she still has close friends in Ukraine and visited the country often with her family and her husband, Ashton Kutcher. Nonetheless, she admitted that whenever people would ask her where she was from, she’d say she was Russian for “a multitude of reasons.”
“One of them being when I came to the States and I would tell people I’m from Ukraine, the first question I’d get was, ‘Where is Ukraine?’” Mila said. “And then I’d have to explain Ukraine and where it is on the map, and i was like ‘Ugh, that’s exhausting.’”
So, she soon figured out a shorthand.
“But if I was like, ‘I’m from Russia,’ people were like, ‘Oh, we know that country.’ So I was like, great, I’ll just tell people from Russia,” Mila said.
But all of that changed for the Four Good Days star when Russia invaded Ukraine late last month.
“This happens and I can’t express or explain what came over me, but all of a sudden I was like, ‘Oh my God, I feel like a part of my heart just got ripped out,’” she said. “It was the weirdest feeling.”
She now says that she won’t tell people she’s from Russia anymore.
“Hell no, I’m from Ukraine!” she said.
Mila also noted that the way Ukrainians are handling the conflict has given her a renewed sense of “pride.” She said that she was recently speaking to one of her Ukrainian friends about how his family is handling the conflict.
“They refuse to evacuate,” she said of her friend’s family. “And they all go to work everyday. So they’re in their bomb shelter at night, they wake up in the morning, they take whatever they have to protect themselves in the city, and they go to their office to continue working. It is a different breed of people.”
Ukrainians’ resilience in the face of devastating circumstances is an aspect of the conflict that has caught many people’s attention. Videos of a pianist playing Louis Armstrong’s What A Wonderful World outside of a train station in Lviv and a girl singing Let It Go in a bunker have gone viral on social media. There are many heroic stories about Ukrainians having to travel hundreds of miles to escape violence. Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelenskyy declined an offer from the US to evacuate him and has reportedly dodged multiple assassination attempts.
“The fight is here; I need ammunition, not a ride,” Zelenskyy said in February, soon after the Russian invasion.
Mila told Shriver she’s now trying to instill Ukrainian pride in her children, daughter Wyatt, 7, and son Dimitri, 5, both of whom she shares with Ashton Kutcher, who was raised in Iowa.
“I turned to my kids and I was like, ‘You are half Ukrainian, half American!’ Like, I literally was like, ‘Look, you!’ And my kids were like, ‘Yeah mom, I get it.’ And I was like, ‘No! You are Ukrainian and American.’ I was like, ‘You are half Iowa, half Ukraine.’ And they’re like, ‘OK, I get it.’”