Bette Midler Slammed For Tweeting ‘Try Breastfeeding!’ Amid Baby Formula Shortage

The “Ruthless People” star then doubled down on her stance, prompting an even stronger Twitter backlash.
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Bette Midler is not the wind beneath new parents’ wings right now.

The “Beaches” star received quite the Twitter lashing after she offered a dismissive take on the baby formula shortage Thursday night.

The shortage has left store shelves across the nation bare of baby formula thanks to COVID-19-related supply chain issues that worsened after Abbott Nutrition, a major formula manufacturer, recalled select lots of Similac, Alimentum and EleCare products.

The lack of availability has caused stressful situations for families who rely on baby formula — for a multitude of reasons — to feed their infants.

“TRY BREASTFEEEDING!” Midler tweeted Thursday night. “It’s free and available on demand.”

TRY BREASTFEEEDING! It’s free and available on demand. https://t.co/15xetgg1ps

— bettemidler (@BetteMidler) May 13, 2022

Her flippant solution to a complex problem was in response to a tweet from MSNBC host Stephanie Ruhle, who emphasized the severity of the situation by noting that the “baby formula shortage reveals an amazing secret oligopoly” of three companies owning “90%” of the market.

People on Twitter were quick to point out how truly ignorant Midler’s comment came off.

Oof. Powerfully bad take.

— The Hoarse Whisperer (@TheRealHoarse) May 13, 2022

Imagine having a large gay fanbase, many of whom are raising kids in two-dad households, and thinking this is a good suggestion.

— Tim Carvell (@timcarvell) May 13, 2022

Bette, respectfully, this is a very bad take. I had twins. I didn’t produce enough milk for both. Without formula, I would have had to have chosen which one got to eat. To say nothing of kids that get separated from the birth mothers very young.

— Ilyse Hogue (@ilyseh) May 13, 2022

I love you Bette, but this is not okay. I fought to breastfeed my son, he kept losing weight, despite my best efforts, including lactation experts. It was emotional and 💔 I felt like a failure and at 3 months switched to formula, because of the stress it put on me and my son.

— What Just Happened🤣 (@Mom2boy_pup_cat) May 13, 2022

We need to stop shaming women. For having sex. For liking sex. For getting raped. For having babies. For not having babies. For breastfeeding. For not breastfeeding. For using daycare. For not using daycare. Please, can we just let women live? Can we please just let them be?

— Shadow of Dot Calm (@DotCalmsshadow) May 13, 2022

You’ve never had mastitis I take it.

— Allison Floyd (@AllisonRFloyd) May 14, 2022

It's free if you have the time to feed a baby every 2 hours for 20 minutes. Or if your body can make milk.

— Goddess of Workarounds (@The_Goonhongo) May 13, 2022

Yet, after many laid out plenty of understandable reasons why breastfeeding isn’t an option for all of those who are caring for babies, Midler doubled down on her stance.

People are piling on because of former tweet. No shame if you can’t breastfeed, but if you can & are somehow convinced that your own milk isn’t as good as a “scientifically researched product”, that’s something else again. The monopoly news is news to me, tho, no lie. #WETNURSES

— bettemidler (@BetteMidler) May 13, 2022

“No shame if you can’t breastfeed, but if you can & are somehow convinced that your own milk isn’t as good as a ‘scientifically researched product’, that’s something else again,” the Grammy-winner tweeted Thursday. “The monopoly news is news to me, tho, no lie.”

She then offered another glib solution for those who can’t breastfeed in the form of a snarky and unhelpful hashtag,

“#WETNURSES.”

Given that not everyone has access to wet nurses, plenty of Twitter went off.

Instead of doubling down, listen.

Formula keeps babies alive. My milk didn’t come in for 5 days. There was no wet nurse. He was starving. I was made to feel like a failure. Hospital okayed formula. He thrived.

Babies died before formula but people like to think they didn’t.

— Jess, Bog Hag 🌻 (@BogHagJess) May 13, 2022

People are piling on because you are working with old information. Women *don’t* believe formula is better than breast milk. They’re *shamed* for using formula, even if it’s their only option. Your tweet re-inforced that women who don’t breastfeed are failures. They’re not.

— Jennifer Bettina Wayne (@BettinaWayne) May 13, 2022

Are you reading the stories of the people "piling on?" Almost every one is a testimony about why breastfeeding didn't work for them and not a single one I've read says the reason was because they didn't think their milk was good enough. Formula saved many of our babies' lives.

— JHG (@WithLoveFromDF) May 13, 2022
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