Bette Midler Apologizes After ‘Women Are The N-Word’ Tweet Inflames Fans

The "Hocus Pocus" actress shared the offensive phrase, then defended herself twice before deleting the original tweet.
Bette Midler, nooooooo!
Bette Midler, nooooooo!
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Actress and singer Bette Midler is acting a little scary, and it’s not because of the “Hocus Pocus” reruns.

The 72-year-old star on Thursday shared an awful take on feminism with an equally awful song title.

“Women, are the n-word of the world,” Midler tweeted. “Raped beaten, enslaved, married off, worked like dumb animals ... They are the most disrespected creatures on earth.”

She defended her problematic message two more times before deleting the tweet altogether and apologizing a few hours later.

Bette Midler deleted her tweet, but not before pissing a whole lot of people off.
Bette Midler deleted her tweet, but not before pissing a whole lot of people off.
Twitter/Bette Midler

The tone-deaf tweets frightened her fans.

Midler was actually quoting the title of a 1972 song written by John Lennon and Yoko Ono, which was just as problematic then as it is now.

Unamused, thousands of people replied to Midler pointing out what should’ve been obvious: It is not OK for her, a white woman (or any non-black woman, for that matter) to use that word.

People also stressed that the struggle of white women can’t be compared to the history of racism, violence and systematic oppression that black women have faced, which her tweet (perhaps unwittingly) erased.

Full stop. https://t.co/KcQUASkzVu

— Jemele Hill (@jemelehill) October 5, 2018

BLACK WOMEN EXIST BETTE

— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) October 5, 2018

This is why we can't have nice things. Black women were literally and LEGALLY property. Fact: Many white women owned/abused slaves right along with their husbands. Ever seen a lynching picture? Guess what you don't see: White women crying. Respect American History. @BetteMidler pic.twitter.com/AixOFYXYu8

— Tim Black ™ (@RealTimBlack) October 5, 2018

What kind of false equivalency? What kind of erasure? Bon enough twitter for today pic.twitter.com/OsyVtxAg3d

— Marie (@marie_mukaza) October 5, 2018

After thousands tried to educate Midler, the actress doubled down on her use of the quote before deleting both tweets altogether.

She acknowledged in a follow-up tweet that her message “offended many” but defended it by noting that it was originally spoken by Yoko Ono, “which I never forgot.”

“It rang true then, and it rings true today, whether you like it or not,” she wrote. “This is not about race, this is about the status of women; THEIR HISTORY.”

Bette Midler defended the use of the word two hours after her original tweet.
Bette Midler defended the use of the word two hours after her original tweet.
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Midler’s defense of the quote inflamed people even more.

State Sen. Nina Turner (D-Ohio) told Midler that her white woman privilege was showing.

Rapper Talib Kweli Greene reminded her that “black women exist” and “are treated like niggers. You are not,” he tweeted to her. “Please stop erasing black women. Thank you.”

@BetteMidler I see you have decided to double-down on this insensitive, ridiculous madness. Your arrogance and deliberate disregard for the experiences of Black women and by extension The Black community as a whole is breath-taking. Your privilege is showing! https://t.co/yUNGB69WUx

— Nina Turner (@ninaturner) October 5, 2018

Nah. This apology don’t get it. I’m a big fan of your work @bettemidler but this will not do. Black women exist. They are treated like niggers. You are not. You have never been treated like a nigger. Trust. Please stop erasing black women. Thank you. https://t.co/2mA5mMxvaV

— Talib Kweli Greene (@TalibKweli) October 5, 2018

Yoko was wrong then, and you're wrong now.

— Sofia Quintero (@sofiaquintero) October 5, 2018

Then Midler appeared to push the issue even further by tweeting a link to a New Yorker article reporting that the FBI would be ignoring the testimony of the former classmates of Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanaugh, who has been accused of sexual assault.

“SEE,” the actress tweeted.

SEE WHAT I MEAN?? https://t.co/C5xReWPqa2

— Bette Midler (@BetteMidler) October 5, 2018

In an appeal to the people she offended, Midler blamed her random outburst on the FBI’s brief and limited investigation into the sexual assault claim made against Kavanaugh by Christine Blasey Ford.

The actress said she shared her thoughts on women “angrily” and acknowledged that black women “doubly suffer, both by being women and being black.”

“I am an ally and stand with you; always have,” she wrote. “And I apologize.”

The too brief investigation of allegations against Kavanaugh infuriated me. Angrily I tweeted w/o thinking my choice of words would be enraging to black women who doubly suffer, both by being women and by being black. I am an ally and stand with you; always have. And I apologize.

— Bette Midler (@BetteMidler) October 5, 2018

Some people accepted Midler’s lapse of judgment, but for others, the damage had already been done.

It takes a grown woman to apologize when she is wrong--thank you. Accepted. And thank you for having the courage to admit you were wrong in public, on twitter and with genuine humility. #ThereIsACode #TheWomanCode #BetteMidler

— Sophia A. Nelson (@IAmSophiaNelson) October 5, 2018

Nothing like a white woman telling another white woman that her offensive Tweet, which invalidated black suffering, “didn’t invalidate black suffering.”

This is a classic example of whitesplaining.

— Bishop Talbert Swan (@TalbertSwan) October 5, 2018

How exhausting it is to have to even state this in 2018. But here we are.

— Shanita Hubbard (@msshanitarenee) October 5, 2018

No ma’am.

Please don’t appropriate the racism Black people experience.

Sexism is bad enough as it is.

Racism is a different bad thing.

Some people experience both.

And this is a very bad tweet.

— Lura Groen (@lura_groen) October 5, 2018

Bette Midler What are you doing? pic.twitter.com/XoTLV3VQa3

— Matthew A. Cherry (@MatthewACherry) October 5, 2018

We’re tired!

— Crystal Marie Fleming (@alwaystheself) October 5, 2018

Damn. @BetteMidler had to go get herself canceled in October, of all the months?? I haven't even gotten to watch Hocus Pocus yet, this Fall.

— Gennette Cordova (@GNCordova) October 5, 2018
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