Feminist Shows Ugly Truth About What Happens When You Agree With Men's Compliments

'I responded 'I know' to a compliment once and the guy got so nasty.'
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Next time you receive a compliment from a guy, we dare you to agree with him.

According to activist Feminista Jones, if a woman says “yes, I know” when a man gives her a compliment (such as “you look nice”), it doesn’t go down well.

In fact, Jones believes agreeing with a compliment in a confident manner is a sure-fire way to piss a lot of men off - and it comes down to the expectation that “women show no self-appreciation”.

It seems a lot of women agree with her theory, as her recent tweet on the topic received more than 8,000 likes.

Piss a man off today: Tell him you agree with his compliment of you.

— TheDevil's Sidechick (@FeministaJones) May 12, 2017

In further tweets, Jones said she has first-hand experience of annoying men through her reaction to compliments.

“They even complain when you say ‘thanks’ with a straight face instead of ‘thank you’ with frilly giggles and fake blushed,” she said.

“I’ve had several men tell me they found ‘thanks’ an offensive reply to a compliment given to a woman.”

Jones puts this down to the fact that women are expected to “show no self-appreciation” and are meant to be “overjoyed by someone (a man) saying something positive about them”.

In response to her thread, other women shared their experiences of facing a backlash after agreeing with a compliment.

@FeministaJones I responded "I know" to a compliment once, and the guy got soooooo nasty afterwards

— Misc. Fetishes (@KINGTopher9) May 12, 2017

@FeministaJones Works every time pic.twitter.com/uUWMAnCtGv

— 🐈 (@afrawlmiau) May 12, 2017

@FeministaJones well liking yourself ruins the fetish of innocence apparently pic.twitter.com/uQpkvVclEV

— haunted ravioli (@lilpochaco) May 17, 2017

@FeministaJones EVERYTIME!
DUDE: You look nice today.
ME: Thank you! I completely agree...
DUDE: pic.twitter.com/zDc9Ez6xMw

— ☀️ Chanel Strangé ☀️ (@CocoBelleChanel) May 12, 2017

@FeministaJones This dude, trying to talk to me at a bus station last summer: "You're very pretty."

Me: "I know. Thanks."

Him: pic.twitter.com/LDFsDvkizP

— Michelle Obama Jr. (@MonaFeesa) May 12, 2017
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