Guardian Soulmates Is Closing – And These People Are Crushed

The platform has now been opened up for everyone to use for free until it closes at the end of June.
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Guardian Soulmates is closing down – and former daters who met their match on the platform are pretty forlorn about it.

After 15 years, the premium dating site announced it will close at the end of June as it’s unable to keep up with fierce competition from free dating apps and sites.

“We’ve come a long way and are very proud of all the thousands of people we’ve helped introduce, the good dates people have been on (ok, we know not all were good, but we tried), the weddings that took place and the families that have been created,” a statement from the team read.

“To every single person who has used our service, thank you. You have been part of a wonderful community of like-minded people, open to finding love and meeting people. But like all good things, we must now come to an end and we’ll be shutting up shop.”

The platform has now been opened up for everyone to use for free. So, in the words of the Soulmates crew: “If you were waiting for the right moment to make your move – it’s now!”

Those who already pay for the dating site will be able to get refunds on existing subscriptions, Guardian Soulmates has said. They’ll be refunded for days paid beyond and including 14 May, and “this will be done proactively, without subscribers needing to take any action”.

On Twitter, people are already paying tribute to the dating site that introduced them to the people they fell in love with.

Prepare for a reminisce fest.

RIP Guardian Soulmates - and thanks for giving me a family https://t.co/qkZpWyxION

— Simon Usborne (@susborne) May 14, 2020

I met my wife through Guardian Soulmates. Through somebody else's Guardian Soulmates. It's quite a good story so I'll try to tell it. A few details will be a bit misremembered or accidentally made up, probably, but I'll do my best.

— Fred Connelly (@brendonconnelly) May 14, 2020

Gutted to hear this. I met @northernmunki1 on Soulmates 11 years ago- best thing that’s ever happened to me. Thank you @guardian_SM 🙏🏽 Old school dating is the best. https://t.co/CHaJ4Luhpu

— Saskia Nelson (@saskia_nelson) May 14, 2020

Sad to see that Guardian Soulmates is coming to an end: one girlfriend, two memorable (for the right reasons) first dates, and two amazing and much-loved friends, Paula and Ali. https://t.co/25jFeHUoXL

— Andrew Wilson (@AndrewJWilson76) May 14, 2020

One lovely boyfriend, one amazing fiancé, some complete horrorshows and a lot of laughs. RIP Guardian Soulmates, you did me well. (Also snorting at my friends forwarding me their email at the exact moment I was reading it out to Ed). https://t.co/3oyy5F7FQp

— Sarah Handyside (@shandyside) May 14, 2020

As part of my speech on our wedding day I read out some of the messages I’d sent Catherine on Guardian Soulmates. It’s a miracle she agreed to meet me let alone marry me. Thank you Guardian Soulmates. https://t.co/R0AKKEI981

— Christian Ward (@cjwardart) May 14, 2020

Wrote this email at, er, 10:17am the day after date one. Three years later, we named the tables at our wedding after dating sites (the top table being Guardian Soulmates. Granny got Grindr, I seem to remember). pic.twitter.com/gVS3POipba

— Simon Usborne (@susborne) May 14, 2020

Among people paying tribute to the platform have been those who didn’t exactly find love – but did find some great anecdotes to tell mates as a result.

RIP Guardian Soulmates, thanks for all the messages from fifty year old + men who thought I was ‘deeply charming, etc.’ because I was a living female who liked books, and for two of the weirdest dates I’ve ever been on. I’ll remember your unnecessarily complex profiles fondly.

— Natalie D Kane (@nd_kane) May 14, 2020

I was once the 'featured soulmate' photo during my brief foray into online dating, and I've never had so many strange messages in my life

— No.1 Millennial Curator Account (@Danielle_J_Thom) May 14, 2020

Well, that’s the end of an era. An era mainly characterised by the kind of dates that make good anecdotes now (Not so much at the time). Tara Guardian Soulmates! pic.twitter.com/uPRoGzVYsf

— Sara Robinson (@sararobinson81) May 14, 2020

I met some of the oddest men I've ever met on Guardian soulmates.

— Felicity Hall (@Thingyness) May 14, 2020

It’s safe to say this guy is devastated by the loss.

This site is how I met my Mrs and the reason I’m no longer dating and why I’m not alone during lockdown so THANKS FOR RUINING MY LIFE GUARDIAN SOULMATES. https://t.co/lKkiOKarnO

— Chris Tilly (@TillyTweets) May 14, 2020

Thanks for the memories, GS.

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