Should Smacking Be Banned In The Home? New Calls For Government To Legislate

We asked parents what they really think.

The government is facing fresh calls today to implement a ban on smacking in the home, as psychologists say it is harmful to children’s mental health.

The Association of Educational Psychologists (AEP) tabled a motion to the TUC Conference this week calling for physical punishment to be outlawed.

Currently – although corporal punishment is banned in schools – the law in England, Wales and Northern Ireland, says it is legal for a parent or carer to smack their own child under the terms of “reasonable punishment”.

Section 58 of the Children Act 2004 defends adults, unless the child is left with an injury, in which case they could be charged with common assault.

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In October 2017, the Scottish government confirmed a proposed smacking ban, lodged my Green MSP John Finnie, would be made into law. It was the first part of the UK to take this step. But should the rest of the union follow?

Sixty countries already have full bans including Sweden, Ireland, Spain, Germany and Portugal. The UK is one of only four countries in Europe that still allow it, alongside Italy, Switzerland, and the Czech Republic.

Psychologists argue that there are better ways to teach right and wrong, according to the BBC. In fact, some research suggests that when parents use force on their child, changes occur in the brain which may cause them to be more forceful in the future.

Member of the AEP national executive committee, John Drewicz, will tell the TUC conference: “Smacking is harmful to a child’s mental health, it models aggressive behaviour and it says to them that it is okay to use violence.”

Dr Mary Bousted, joint general secretary of the union, said: “We are not talking about dictating to parents how this is done but what we are saying is that it in 2018 beating children in anger, or as part of a pre-meditated punishment, is neither acceptable or defensible.”

But what do parents think? When asked by HuffPost UK, most respondents backed the idea of introducing a ban on smacking.

As a survivor of child abuse, I believe it is too easy for this to get out of hand. Who gets to decide how much hitting, how hard of hitting, where the hitting happens... is acceptable vs. too much?

— Life, like u mean it (@lisacybaniak) September 12, 2018

We shouldn’t raise children that need to recover from their childhood. 100% BAN #smacking #mentalhealth

— AnnieBelasco (@BelascoAnnie) September 12, 2018

It should be banned. I'd never dream of hitting my sons. I had a tap on the back of the legs when I was growing up & as many will say "it did me no harm." But it wouldn't be ok for an adult to smack another adult. Same rules should apply. Surely a form of domestic violence?

— Stacey MacNaught (@staceycav) September 12, 2018

Rubbish ! I was hit by my mum and it doesn’t leave me with happy memories. I never hit my kids and they are really well behavoured. Hitting leads to more hitting. Exactly why those abused as kids become abusers (not all of course )

— Jules (@jules_cm) September 12, 2018

There is no reason whatsoever to use violence as a method of disciplining your child. It only reinforces negative behaviours.

— ben_morgan (@ben_morgan) September 12, 2018

The "if it doesn't leave a mark it's OK" theory is just downright sinister.

— Toni Hargis (@ToniHargis) September 12, 2018

Hitting children should definitely be banned. We should be joining the other 60 countries that already ban physical punishment. With what we know about mental health, trauma, and behavior, how is it not already?

— GentleParentingWNY (@gentleparentwny) September 12, 2018

Although some said that the new law was just more “red tape” and intervention from the government in people’s personal lives.

More red tape , did you mean alarm back in the 60s when I got a smack for my mum and dad that’s why the kids of today leave society with a problem. Ps . I hate violence

— Jay (@JamesKeziow) September 12, 2018

And campaigners have argued that parents would be criminalised if a smacking ban were to be passed.

Others had more practical questions about how the potential new law would even be monitored by officials.

The question is how will this be monitored/maintained? Violence against children is of course wrong, however a gentle pat with a firm 'No' to teach about dangers (running in the road, touching something that will burn them etc.) is something else. The line is incredibly fine...

— Rebecca Cheung (@Bistro_Becs) September 12, 2018

Without doubt yes. Problem is how to manage it with ten social workers arriving threatening care after a minor incident. But yes.

— Andy Pusey (@AndyPusey) September 12, 2018

What do you think? Email us at sophie.gallagher@huffpost.com.

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