The Joy Of Drunken Loo Chats: Why The Women's Toilets Are The Best Place To Be On A Night Out

Always making new best friends.

Public toilets aren’t usually our favourite place to hang out. But on a night out, women’s loos turn from somewhere you want to get out of as soon as possible, into a haven of pep talks, compliments and sisterhood.

Anyone who has used the women’s loos after dark (and after a couple of drinks) will know about the friendships formed – and then forgotten – over a two-minute wait in a toilet queue.

One woman, Lindsey Mecklenburg, decided to capture this moment on camera when she witnessed some women giving her friend a pep talk about her weight.

The strangers told her pal she could wear “whatever she wanted” – and Mecklenburg shared the video on Twitter.

Waiting in lines in women’s bathrooms at bars is literally like this and I am so here for it. This pep talk deserves a million retweets pic.twitter.com/e2o5eOtbUO

— Lindsey Mecklenburg (@lindseymeck) May 25, 2019

“Waiting in lines in women’s bathrooms at bars is literally like this and I am so here for it,” she wrote. Her video has now been viewed nearly 10 million times since it was posted on Twitter on Saturday.

Other women from around the world were so moved by the video, they shared their own positive experiences from women’s loos on nights out.

These stories will give you all the feels.

Sober me has social anxiety, but drunk me has climbed under the stalls of a girl throwing up just to hold back her hair and soothing tell her that she's the most beautiful woman on the planet

— haru hana (@jkharuhana) May 26, 2019

I met my best friend when I was drunk crying in the restroom Club for a guy and then we both started telling our traumas and started complimenting each other to lift our self esteem. @juliazambom I love you 💕

— Geminiana Média (@vickyNaoMeAchem) May 27, 2019

I went out the other day (I have arthritis so my hands don’t always work) I was trying to redo my ponytail and this girl behind me was like .. do you need help? I do hair girl. And hooked me up w a cute ass ponytail. 💜

— liz t (@lizzyloo412) May 26, 2019

This literally happened yesterday when I went out. We encouraged a girl who felt ugly in her outfit. We told her she looked beautiful & amazing and that she should never feel like that EVER. Every woman should bring each other up not down❤️

— Karen Boone (@Real_KarenBoone) May 26, 2019

A few weeks ago I was in desperate need of a tampon and drunk out of my head. This girl legit comes up to me in the toilet and hands me everything I need and she’s like “I’m sure you’d do the same for me” AND I WAS IN SHOCK

— BECCA ♡ / BUSTERS CB SOON (@LinLination) May 26, 2019

The best time I had was when this girl promised to name her first daughter after me 😂😂😂

— mag the pony (@Mexi421) May 26, 2019

One person even shared the story of some girls who befriended an older woman on a night out after she complimented their outfits.

💕 pic.twitter.com/LbzQZQRreM

— mahrmaid (@SmithMahri) January 29, 2017

And many said the bonds they formed were so strong, they exchanged numbers and vowed to stay in contact.

I have at least 15 numbers in my phone from drunk girls I bonded with in bathrooms and never contacted lmao

— feminist bitch (@angryangryalice) May 27, 2019

Theres so many girls I've swapped instas with after we've hyped each other up in bathrooms, I never un follow them

— Deet 🤡 (@fmatrash) May 26, 2019

Anyone who has made these types of friendships knows they’re the purest kind going.

I wish we'd always act like we're drunk and be nice to each other

— Lids (@lilsiwinki) May 26, 2019

drunk girls in the bathroom will save the world

— lelu (@thepachanga_) May 26, 2019

Ain’t that the truth.

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