childbirth
'We never fully recover.'
'I’m pleased I missed the pain.'
'It was the most incredible thing I have ever done.'
'Some people probably find this uncomfortable, but why?'
If you find yourself in this situation you need to prioritise your toddler or preschooler over your newborn, because they are hurting. Really, really hurting. Their whole world has turned upside down and inside out and they are experiencing grief like never before.