Gender reveal party

The El Dorado Fire, which has burned more than 7,000 acres, was traced back to a smoke-generating device from the event, authorities said.
The decade-old ritual is the perfect party for our mind-melting, social-media-loving, anxious-about-gender moment.
Pamela Kreimeyer died instantly when debris struck her head on Saturday during the party in Iowa
“There are plenty of reasons to eat cake,” writer Jenna Karvunidis said. “You can pick one that doesn’t reinforce an attitude of harm toward members of the LGBTQ community.”