Genderqueer

Speaking at the Attitude Awards, the four-time Grammy winner pledged to live "as loudly and queerly as humanly possible".

We need to celebrate ourselves and not wait for outside attention. We don’t need a hero. We are our own heros.

I came to really love the coming out process. But it was also a bit like planning a wedding guestlist: trying to keep across who I’d told and who I still had to tell, and trying not to hurt anyone’s feelings.